What stages do individuals have to go through in dating? The fourth stage is the most risky. Both men and women go through many different stages in love, and this feeling between us will continue to change with the passage of time, and the relationship between the two will also seem different. The stages that one has to experience in love can be summarized into the following five.

First, the seedling stage.

At this time, it is not realistic for people to clearly establish a romantic relationship and be overly passionate from the start, as it might scare the other person. Therefore, in the initial stages of dating, both parties tend to be shy, and it takes time to go from unfamiliarity to understanding, and finally to explicitly becoming a couple. This stage requires time to truly accept each other. During this stage, although both have a strong liking for each other, being together feels truly happy. However, both individuals may feel constrained due to shyness, and it is not necessary to feel that the other person does not like you; it is just that they feel uneasy. Moreover, both want the other person to feel that they are a decent person, to add points to themselves, and to improve the other person’s friendliness. Therefore, the other person’s calmness does not mean they do not like you; it is just that they worry that you might not like them.

Second, the passionate love period.

After early understanding, we have interacted very harmoniously, on the one hand, we can freely express our affection to the other party, on the other hand, we will also be more daring to show our true self in front of the other party. The beloved eyes see the beauty, at this moment, the two will feel that they are truly the best partners, and everything the other person does is praiseworthy, every angle is perfect. It can be said that love makes people blind, so at this time, the other person in the eyes of the other party is the highest score, and the emotion is the most intense, every day can not wait to stick together, originally did not see, and want to meet again.

Third, the平淡 period.

Lovers at this stage are generally after three months, we have already learned everything about each other, the mystery has completely disappeared, so many lovers who came together due to a temporary novelty feel that there is no need to continue the relationship from now on, because they feel it is meaningless. We have experienced everything we should have experienced, whether it is holding hands or embracing, it no longer has the initial heart-pounding feeling, so we also feel that we no longer like the other person. And for those who still have feelings, they still interact as before, but not as passionate as before, and they will not always want to see the other person, but sometimes they may feel that living alone may be more comfortable and relaxed.

Fourth, the磨合 period.

The磨合 period signifies that friction and disputes are inevitable, which is also the most frequent stage of disputes between lovers. Because of the three previous stages of interaction, the bright spots of the other party have gradually become dim, and all the defects and weaknesses are exposed in front of you. The two will start to have some conflicting emotions with each other, and find that they have many areas that are diametrically opposed, and there will be countless disputes every day. We feel that the other person has changed, but in fact, they have not changed. It’s just that at the beginning, neither of us could see the other person’s defects, and the other person was absolutely perfect in our eyes. Now that the ps filter has been removed, we see the real each other. And many lovers choose to end this relationship at this stage.

Fifth, interdependence period.

Lovers who reach this stage generally come with the intention of getting married, some may indeed have always been in a harmonious relationship, even if there are arguments, they never let it last overnight and make up the same day. However, this kind of situation is extremely rare, and the vast majority of lovers still rely on their deep affection and are unwilling to let go of each other. This stage does not represent that it is always safe, although they have already reached the last stage, there is still a possibility of breaking up. Because after many arguments and disputes, they can get to this point only because they deeply love each other and temporarily forget about the disputes, not mentioning them to each other. Once there is a divergence again, the past things will be brought up again. However, lovers who can reach this stage are very clear about tolerating each other.