Each emotional period is accompanied by a certain period of emotional fatigue. Generally, this period of fatigue occurs in long-term lovers who have been together for a long time, and both parties’ attention will decrease. During the fatigue period, both parties may not be able to stand each other. So, when does the emotional fatigue period occur? What should the two do when they enter the emotional fatigue period?

When is the emotional fatigue period?

Every person is different! Let’s take a look at the comments from netizens:

1. My period of fatigue is caused by the other person, because her performance was tired, and I lost my enthusiasm.

2. The seven-year itch, after 7/8 years of knowing each other, we can no longer understand each other, and we come to a state of fatigue.

3. About three years. Now that the passionate love is over, the emotions are a bit flat, but I am accustomed to having such a person by my side.

4. About eight months, at first, like a conjoined twin, if there is time, we will stay together. Suddenly one day, I found that even if there is time, I would rather stay in the dormitory than go out for a date.

5. I started after getting married. I just felt that marriage was really inconvenient, and I didn’t want to prepare for anything. I could just make do with everything, but I couldn’t accept the change in identity all at once.

6. My parents don’t have a period of fatigue, but I do. After being with the target for one and a half years, I think I have started to get angry with him for no reason.

What should we do when we are in a period of emotional fatigue?

1. Go on a trip together

It is said that two deeply in love people must go on a trip together before marriage, so that they can better understand each other. For those who have been together for a long time, we are in the same living environment for a long time, which is indeed very easy to cause professional burnout. If we get out of the familiar living environment and enter an unfamiliar natural environment, the things we encounter will be fresh, which can easily stimulate our feelings for the other person, making our relationship closer.

2. Share each other’s dark history

Although we have been together for a long time, we may not necessarily know each other’s dark history. Why not share some of your own dark history with the other person at an appropriate time, so that they have a better understanding of you, making you seem very interesting, as if they do not recognize the person you were back then. Especially when you tell them about your dark history, when you are not together, they may still smile about those dark memories.

3. Try to make the other person laugh

If you make the other person laugh, they will definitely like the feeling of being with you. No one would refuse a person who can bring themselves joy and happiness. The longer they feel happy with you, the more dependent they will become on you. Especially for women, if they feel truly happy with a man, they may not leave this man.

4. Try new things together

Everyone’s emotions have drifted apart, as if they have too much control over each other, so why not try something new in some areas, such as changing the way of expressing love, buying new intimate clothing, or for those who are introverted, you can get out of the house, go hiking together, be close to nature, change some of the unchanging daily life content, and create a sense of mystery for each other.